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How do you like to think? Negative or positive? How do you analyze your life so far? Good, fair or poor on the overall? Read on to find out how you can have better results in life. Let me start with the following statement: "Good thoughts bear good fruits. Bad thoughts bear bad fruits. And man is his own gardener." Do you agree with above statement? Does it ring a bell? How can you have better results in life for instance, your relationships, career, spirituality and work/life balance? Can you do better by thinking better? This is what the statement in quotes really means. So how can you think better? You need to feel good about yourself. And the easiest way to do that is to smile. Start smiling and saying Hello to everyone you meet throughout the day. You will get smiles and Hellos back. That would certainly make you feel better. And that makes you think better.  How can thinking better lead to better results? You will behave and talk better. Your body language will exude confidence. All these strengthen communications in career and relationships. You have better things to say to Almighty God and thank Him. Your spiritual connection, as a result, gets enhanced. Life gets better and you find a good balance between work and life. How can you train yourself to think better? Because like anybody else, your inner critic will let you into negative thoughts, majority of the time. The trick is to defeat this inner critic, go past it and focus on positivity. What is good about the current moment? Go still for a few seconds. The answer will come to you soon. It can be a good conversation with a colleague over having coffee; getting joy from playing with your child, an appetizing hearty dinner, a wonderful chat with a complete stranger and the list goes on. Get on the right track. Schedule a discovery call with me today and we can uncover plenty of "better thoughts"! To your extraordinary Success!!!
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How much have you saved for your retirement? Let me show you a way that when you turn (insert your desired age) you can be retired, travel and live the life of your dreams. Sound familiar? There is nothing wrong with saving for retirement, so when you reach that magical age you don’t want to work anymore you don’t have too. The problem is this; you can save for your retirement without deferring the life you want to live right now. Why wait until you may be too old to really enjoy a trip to Mount Everest, when you can actually climb Mount Everest.  Why not go and walk on the glaciers of Alaska instead of just looking at pictures. Swim with the dolphins somewhere in the Bahamas, well, all of these dreams and more don’t have to be deferred to some magical age, you can start living your dreams right now. Will it be easy, no. Will it involve sacrifice? Yes. Is this something anyone could do? No. Can it be done by you? Yes. Everyone can’t do it, because everyone will rather keep living their dreams as a dream instead of becoming a reality. It could be they are afraid, or will question why they haven’t done it before now. YOU CAN DO IT, because the minute you decide you want to, you will start doing the things you NEED TO DO, to make things happen the way you want. Where to begin? Easy, call me and let me be your tour guide to the REST OF YOUR AMAZING LIFE! Schedule your amazing Free Discovery Call with me today. When it comes time for you to leave this earth, what legacy will you leave behind? What will people say about you? Will they say, he or she was dynamic person, that lived life to the fullest, and everyone wished they had the intestinal fortitude to live like them, or he or she played life safe, was steady dependable, always played by the rules and lived a steady (boring) life. If you want to play it safe, just be considered dependable and downright boring, I can’t help you.  All you have to do is continue to live as you are, and this will be your epitaph. Now if you want to extract every moment from life, live it to the maximum extent, and be known as that guy or that girl everyone wanted to be with or be like; I can help that legacy become a reality. The beautiful thing is, you won’t have to wait until you leave this earth, they will start saying that right now, well right after you call me and we can IMMEDIATELY start developing and enacting a plan specifically for you, where you will become the material legends are made from. Why wait? Do it now, do it today! Your legacy begins with one phone call to me, and believe me, this is one time minimum effort will bring maximum results!
Let’s map out a legacy you can be proud of. Schedule your Free Discovery Call with me today. Who owns your life? Who does your life belong too? Does it belong to you, or those around you? The question seems silly, but our actions speak louder than words. We may claim to our lives belong to us, yet we let others dictate our dreams, hopes and aspirations. We live our lives as if we are owned by the shortcomings projected on us by others. There are few limits on us, to stop us from achieving whatever we desire.  What is it you have always wanted to do, but haven’t? Where is it you have always wanted to go but didn’t? What stopped you? We our often our biggest obstacle, stumbling block and hindrance because we look at what we see now instead of what could be. Let me help you take back possession of your life; live your dreams, do your goals, and live a life doing you. We have but one life to live, so why not let me help you live it to the maximum extent possible! Open a world of possibilities for you with one phone discovery call with me! Schedule your Free Discovery Call with me today and start owning your life now. When was the last time you did something just for YOU? When was the last time you took action to help you live the life you desired, with no regrets? When was the last time you just went for it, whatever you desired without a thought to the negative consequences you may face. Many of us we want to do things, but because of the possible consequences we hesitate. When it comes to the subject of chasing our passions, we hesitate, procrastinate, and will often say it has to wait because of our responsibilities.  Are you in a fixed position in your career? Do you have the passion of an entrepreneur? Are you thinking about the time when you can make a change, but not sure how to make your passions a reality?
We have tried different “schemes” someone else used, but it just didn’t’ work for us. When we try to use solutions tailored to the situation of someone else as the answer to ours, just like medicine, the symptoms may be similar, but everyone’s situation is unique to them, the cure seldom works. Reach out to me and let me help you do something for yourself with no guilt, no regrets, and no concerns about being able to still fulfill your responsibilities. Let me develop a plan just for YOU, based on YOU and YOUR desires to live life to the fullest! No worries, no regrets, just SUCCESS! Schedule your free Discovery Call today!! I have often heard the phrase “No Pain, No Gain”. I always wondered why endure pain in order to gain something. Is the thing I want to “gain” worth the pain? I have learned the “pain” may signify actual pain, but often refers to leaving your comfort zone. Our comfort zone is often the lifestyle that works best for us; the one where we do what we want, when we want, and how we want. Our diet consists of all our favorite foods in the quantities we love. Our daily routine is filled with what is convenient and comfortable for us. It has been said the definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results. I have heard many people claim they want to be more physically fit, and they want to get in shape. I look at what they routinely do, I see their idea of getting into shape is simply this: the shape they desire is “round” since round is an actual shape.  heir actions drown out their words. Their idea of working out is 20oz curls of their favorite sugary beverages, and their idea of cardio is running to the refrigerator or a thumb workout with a remote control or game controller. Most things are usually okay in moderation, but when the moderation exceeds what the body can take, then health issues occur.
Leading a healthy life style is a matter of choice, and the choice does not mean giving up EVERYTHING you enjoy. There is nothing wrong with having an occasional favorite beverage or food, but moderation is the key. Many times we don’t give our brain to sync with our bodies to tell us we have had enough. The pain to a healthy lifestyle is bearable but simple; get out of the comfort zone. You don’t have to drastically change your lifestyle, all at once, because if you do, it may not last. Cut down your sodas and replace with water or some other healthy alternative. Try to walk a little every day, and slowly increase the distance. Try to arrange your day to get adequate rest. Look for healthy choices that are palatable to you. It may be painful, but just like a pin prick hurts, making the changes in a realistic manner lessens the hurt, makes your comfort zone easier to leave, because you are developing a new paradigm, a new comfort zone, where you actually feel uncomfortable if you don’t get your exercise in, limit your indulges and began to see the actual GAIN from the minimal PAIN! Connect with me and start living your life of purpose on purpose. The 1970s was known as the area of disco. I don’t know much about the disco phenomenon other than it sparked numerous memorial songs, some interesting fashion choices and the undulating beat of chasing your passion with every fiber of your being. There was a song called Disco Inferno, and the tag line was “Burn, baby Burn”. I’m not sure what they were talking about, but when it comes to the flame inside of you, the flame of passion you have for your dream, I say “BURN, BABY, BURN”!  Let nothing extinguish your flame of passion. It may take time. It may take sacrifice. It may take you leaving your comfort zone, but if you want it, go get it and let that passion BURN, BABY, BURN! There will be people that will tell you it can’t be done, shouldn’t be done, or it is not expedient or beneficial for you to even do. Instead of accepting their word as the final authority, make the decision yourself! Imagine if the person that invented the air conditioner gave up. How hot would it be during those steamy summer days? What about the person that invented ice cream? Everyone thought Ford was crazy with the idea of the horseless carriage. All of these things we now enjoy and think nothing about it, but each person had a passion to do something and they got it done. I have discovered people fall into two simple categories in my life; help and hindrance. I have discovered that someone against me can actually spur me on to prove them wrong, and someone that claims to help me can actually slow me down with their desire for me to do things the way they would. Let others live their dream and pursue their passions.
When you know what you want, go for it. Do the research, do comparative analysis on the best way to fulfill your passion, but let that passion flame “BURN BABY BURN”. Afraid your flame is flickering because it has burned so long with no additional fuel. Afraid your dream life is unobtainable, unreachable, or just not realistic? Talk to someone who has routinely defeated the impossible, made it possible. Someone who was told their goal is unobtainable and are currently living their dream. Let them help you, and that person is me! Let me help you light, ignite, fuel, sustain or increase your flame of passion so it can BURN, BABY, BURN! Schedule your free discovery call today and start living your life of purpose on purpose. We all want to live a healthy life, but there just doesn’t seem to be enough time in the day to fulfill our responsibilities and get our optimum workout in. We have work, after work activities, maybe even a spouse or children; things that are important but also consume our time. I have learned it is not so much about the quantity of the workout, but the quality. I have seen people spend hours in the gym and come out looking worse than when they went in. You’ve seen the type. They spend more time taking “selfies” or taking 30 minute breaks in between every 2 repetitions of an ankle rotation exercise. When the finally leave the gym, still looking like they were going on an errand, fresh from the shower, versus the gym, they go to a fast food place, order the left side of the menu and a Green tea, (loaded with sugar of course) to be healthy. I have learned making simple changes in your life can lead to a healthy life. I hate running, but I don’t mind walking. I park a little further from buildings to get some extra walking or “steps” in. I have a goal for the day, the week, the month, to get a certain amount of “steps” in. This may not be the answer for everyone, but small adjustments (in whatever works for you) cause minimal inconvenience and can lead to maximum gains. You see the small steps can lead to bigger changes, and before you know it, the quantity of time is not as important as the quality. I have seen people watch their diet and only spend about an hour in the gym 3-5 times a week. They look good and feel good, but you see, they make every moment count. They take the stairs, instead of the elevator, whenever possible. They opt for the healthier choices at meal time, or pre-pack their meals to know what they are actually eating. The park a little further from the building to get their steps in. They choose water instead of Cokes. The path to a healthy purpose driven life begins with the first step. What are you waiting for? More time; probably won’t happen. An engraved invitation, well here it is….You are cordially invited, in whatever way works for you, to figuratively and literally “GET TO STEPP’IN” towards a healthier you! Schedule your free discovery call today and start living your life of purpose on purpose.
As long as you have breathe in your body, and the ability to “do”, chase your passion, chase your dream. The complexity of your life may make it a little more difficult. The responsibilities you have may make the pursuit of your passion a little more challenging, but it has been often said, anything worth having is worth working for. Want to be a painter? Take art classes and do it! Want to be a skydiver? Go to the training and do it! Want to just live life to the fullest and enjoy all it has to offer? What are you waiting for? Just do it! When we identify our passions and what we really want to do, we often feel it is impossible to do. There was a movie about a man who claimed to spend 90 minutes in heaven. He was in a major car accident and most had counted him dead. He lived, but they thought he would never walk again. His passion, his drive, his motivation, his desire to walk again had him walking out of the hospital in the time frame he spoke into existence. He had faith, and in his case, his faith sustained and kept him. Call it the universe returning, faith, fate, kismet, or whatever, speak your passions into existence by not just saying you want to do it, but you are doing it! Chase your dream! Chase your passion. We have but one life to live and why not live it with a purpose, on purpose as a life of purpose? I can help your dreams become a reality. You’ve tried the rest, why not try the best; Coach Lori Wagner. Let me help you start, and embrace your journey of your passion! Schedule your free discovery call today and start living your life of purpose on purpose.
Are you feeding the flames of your desire? This is not a reference to looking at the special someone and daydreaming about spending the rest of your life with them. This not talking about looking at pictures of your dream house, car or job and saying “one day they will be mine”. I am speaking of what are you doing to feed the flame, or better still, make your desire a reality? If you are interested in that special someone, have you let them know your feelings, or even learned enough about them to see if they are really who you think they are or what you created them to be. Have you researched what it would take for you to get that house, car or job? Feeding the flames of your desire means taking action to make your desire a part of your life. Of course, illegal, immoral or unethical activities are out, but all else is fair play. Stoke the fire of your desire until the flame burns bright enough to illuminate the path you must take for your dreams to come true. Get rid of those thoughts that suck the oxygen from your flames; negative thoughts of why you can’t do a certain thing, and replace them with the thoughts of why you can. There is a saying; glass half full, or half empty; who cares, I am happy to have a glass I can fill it with whatever I desire. Chase your dream, fuel the fire of your desires. It doesn’t matter how old you are; it is only too late when you are in the grave. There are people in their 80s graduating from college, learning how to salsa and even skydiving, so what’s stopping you. Fuel the flames. Let the fire and your desire become the thing that warms you inside and gives you that sense of purpose to live a life on purpose of purpose! Schedule your free discovery call today and start living your life of purpose on purpose. |
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