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This is my piece for you today. You'll eventually become some individuals who surround you that's something I learned painfully costly way. Everybody features a story and so they all contain pros and cons choices through which we take pride in and decisions we regret making. This is often difficult remembrances that people must live, but ultimately, it comes down lower towards the lessons we could glean from them. We are all reflections of the people we keep in our lives and interact with on a daily basis. Their actions and behaviors all resonate and subconsciously influence our everyday choices. Associate with people who make you feel happy It's so crucial that you have those who satisfy you. Those who lead you to laugh and who enable you to whenever you require assistance - those who genuinely care. Individuals are the type who're worth keeping within your existence everyone else is just passing through.  our surrounding atmosphere shapes who you are and who you will become. You're in general control of your existence as well as the products that you employ, why not filter the negative surroundings and place yourself in a positive and fascinating atmosphere, the one that suits your needs?
The most effective example is to look at most likely the very best figures nowadays. How come you think the elite make an effort to place themselves in environments full of like-minded individuals? Surprisingly, the very best and efficient people have weakness that is similar to yours. Surrounding themselves as well as other individuals, who're round the same path or who had been through similar journeys, enables them to educate to learn more about themselves. Connecting yourself with individuals who're round the journey to produce modifications in their lives and yours, rather than individuals that aren't in any great position or aren't developing a difference, is crucial to grow as a person. Are you serious about making a change in your environment but don't know how to get started? Schedule a discovery call I'll help you get started! To your extraordinary Success!!!
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Here’s what you need to start doing today, whether you have two years or two weeks left in the uniform, to better ensure your success: 1. Start Now: The Department of Defense trained you for approximately eight weeks to be a Soldier, Sailor, Marine, Airman, Guardian or Guardsman. When you do the math, that’s about 384 hours of preparation time. Translation: If you spent two hours each day working on your transition, it would equate to about six months of time invested. Have an actual written plan of action and milestones for your own transition. It’s amazing to see that we often do this for every critical military assessment, but not for the most significant event of our adult careers.  2. Identify Gaps
It’s critical that you identify the gaps you currently have in both your professional network and your skill set. Your professional network includes those folks who can actually put you in front of a hiring manager. If you currently don’t have anyone like that in your network, you need to. This self-evaluation will tell you how employable you are and whether or not it’s a good time for you to leave the uniform (if you have a choice in the matter). A fatal mistake I often see? Those who solely rely on people still on Active Duty or people who haven’t looked for a job in years to give them job search and resume advice. Instead, use your time to meet as many recruiters and hiring managers as you can in order to get candid insight and feedback on your true market value in the civilian world, as well as how readable your resume is. (Hint: It should not read like your Evaluation Report.). I have the other actions waiting for you and many more...Connect with me today for a discovery call! To your extraordinary Success!!! Military life is an experience that forever shapes who you are, because it’s unlike any other job you’ll ever do. You’ve attended job training that most people could never understand, let alone accomplish. You’ve lived on installations and ships, and in tents and submarines. And you’ve even deployed to locations that most people have only seen on that dusty globe in high school geography class. It’s through these experiences that you’ve become immersed in tight-knit communities and personal relationships that are often unattainable in “civilian” settings.  That’s why it can be difficult to separate yourself from the culture. You are not just leaving a job; you are leaving a completely different lifestyle. Gone is your communication through military jargon. Gone is your rank structure and responsibility. Gone is your scrutinized work and life schedule. So how can we, as veterans, help ensure a smooth transition from the military to civilian employment? We take what we learned day one in the service — how to adapt and overcome — and apply it to our new surroundings. For more on how to achieve or live a purposeful life as a veteran transition… schedule a discovery call with me. To your extraordinary Success!!! This world isn't always easy on us. Too frequently we're unwillingly a victim of some smooth talking slickest, or some crazy circumstances that we just don't have any control over. "Life isn't fair" we tend to tell ourselves when faced with these injustices. "True. Very true," I say. You're right. Life isn't fair, and life has never been fair. Just think about it... What happens when a fly flies innocently by a frog? Yup! It gets eaten. Life certainly wasn't fair for that poor fly, was it? What did that innocent fly do to that frog? Nothing! It was unfair to that fly, right? I bet right now, we're all glad that we're not flies. Well, we certainly aren't flies. And we usually don't have to worry much about being eaten alive by another creature. It's true that life for us humans is unfair sometimes, but it's rarely ever that unfair. We're almost never victimized to the degree that that poor fly was because we're humans and we have a lot of advantages over the rest of the animal kingdom.  It's not often that our circumstances force us to face life and death situations like the rest of the animal kingdom does on a daily basis. And when our circumstances do tend to be on the bad side, we almost always have choices that we can make to better our situation. The fly flying by the frog doesn't have the ability like us humans to make life-improving decisions once that frog snaps its tongue out of its mouth. Can you imagine what us humans would do if a little frog snapped its tongue out of its mouth towards us? We'd probably say, "Ah... look how cute he is!" We'd probably even mimic the cute little frog by saying, "Ribbit. Ribbit".
Now teens, go learn, lead, and lay the way to a better world for all of us. Remember that we truly are the lucky ones because we don't have to be victimized by our circumstances. And once again, thanks for all that you do, and all that you will do... If circumstances are getting the best of you and if you are determined to not let it that happen, I hope you will schedule a discovery call with me. To your extraordinary Success!!! When it comes time for you to leave this earth, what legacy will you leave behind? What will people say about you? Will they say, he or she was dynamic person, that lived life to the fullest, and everyone wished they had the intestinal fortitude to live like them, or he or she played life safe, was steady dependable, always played by the rules and lived a steady (boring) life. If you want to play it safe, just be considered dependable and downright boring, I can’t help you.  All you have to do is continue to live as you are, and this will be your epitaph. Now if you want to extract every moment from life, live it to the maximum extent, and be known as that guy or that girl everyone wanted to be with or be like; I can help that legacy become a reality. The beautiful thing is, you won’t have to wait until you leave this earth, they will start saying that right now, well right after you call me and we can IMMEDIATELY start developing and enacting a plan specifically for you, where you will become the material legends are made from. Why wait? Do it now, do it today! Your legacy begins with one phone call to me, and believe me, this is one time minimum effort will bring maximum results!
Let’s map out a legacy you can be proud of. Schedule your Free Discovery Call with me today. Are you crazy? I question we never want to hear, but tell someone that prefers to live in the status quo you want to do something different with your life. We are taught to get a 9-5 job, get married, have children, and try to stay ahead of bills until we retire. If we are lucky, upon retirement, we will be able to do SOME of the things we want before we leave this earth. We have but one life to live, so why not live it to the fullest and enjoy every breath we take with every move we make.
I have confidence in you, and will earn your confidence in me to guide you to the path of not only a better, life, but the best life you could have ever imagined! Schedule your Free Discovery Call with me today.
Let me bite your neck! A phrase heard in the older vampire movies. You seldom hear it now as politeness has gone the way of people just taking what they want when they want. Many people have their dreams sucked out of them by the vampires they meet in their life. The vampire only wants you to survive long enough until they can suck you dry; never letting you fully be alive. How many vampires have stopped you from doing what you need to do to live a life of purpose on purpose?  How many times have they just “bitten” your neck, or dreams by telling you all the reasons you can’t, shouldn’t, won’t be able to, it’s not the right time, etc., when it comes to you finally live your life to the fullest. Let me shed some light on the subject. Vampires don’t like the sunlight, and I SPECIALIZE in shedding light on vampiric situations. Let me feed your passions, your desires by helping you break free from the vampire cult and start living life fully in the light of your desired reality. I am not Buffy the Vampire Slayer, but I am a reality maker, and when it comes to the ties you may have to fear, doubt and discouragement; a tie breaker! Let me help you into the light today!
You no longer have to be afraid of the Vampires in your life. Connect with me. What’s stopping you? What is keeping you from living your dreams? What is preventing you from pursuing your passions? What obstacles are in the way of you being the person you want to be and doing what you want to do? The first step in problem solving is identifying the problem. When a person is not where the want to be in their life, or living their desired life, the root cause often comes back to the mindset. At some point in a person’s life, they must make a decision to either believe everything they desire is achievable, or settle for what is immediately obtainable.  Those former passions become daydreams of a fanciful life that will never occur. There used to be a phrase used quite often in the business world, SOLVE FOR YES. Let’s not look at what stops you, but focus on what can motivate you, by solving every problem, issue or concern that has hindered you from living your life of purpose, on purpose by solving for YES! Yes it will be difficult, but it can be done! Yes it is scary, but you don’t have to make the journey alone! Yes, the trip is worth it, and YES I WILL BE WITH YOUR EVERY STEP OF THE WAY. The answer to what is stopping you is simple, you have yet to call me, or contact me. Solve for yes, contact me to do and go from what is stopping you to what has started you to living your dreams!
As Nike says just do it. What are you waiting for start living now? Schedule your free discovery call now. When was the last time you did something just for YOU? When was the last time you took action to help you live the life you desired, with no regrets? When was the last time you just went for it, whatever you desired without a thought to the negative consequences you may face. Many of us we want to do things, but because of the possible consequences we hesitate. When it comes to the subject of chasing our passions, we hesitate, procrastinate, and will often say it has to wait because of our responsibilities.  Are you in a fixed position in your career? Do you have the passion of an entrepreneur? Are you thinking about the time when you can make a change, but not sure how to make your passions a reality?
We have tried different “schemes” someone else used, but it just didn’t’ work for us. When we try to use solutions tailored to the situation of someone else as the answer to ours, just like medicine, the symptoms may be similar, but everyone’s situation is unique to them, the cure seldom works. Reach out to me and let me help you do something for yourself with no guilt, no regrets, and no concerns about being able to still fulfill your responsibilities. Let me develop a plan just for YOU, based on YOU and YOUR desires to live life to the fullest! No worries, no regrets, just SUCCESS! Schedule your free Discovery Call today!! I have often heard the phrase “No Pain, No Gain”. I always wondered why endure pain in order to gain something. Is the thing I want to “gain” worth the pain? I have learned the “pain” may signify actual pain, but often refers to leaving your comfort zone. Our comfort zone is often the lifestyle that works best for us; the one where we do what we want, when we want, and how we want. Our diet consists of all our favorite foods in the quantities we love. Our daily routine is filled with what is convenient and comfortable for us. It has been said the definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results. I have heard many people claim they want to be more physically fit, and they want to get in shape. I look at what they routinely do, I see their idea of getting into shape is simply this: the shape they desire is “round” since round is an actual shape.  heir actions drown out their words. Their idea of working out is 20oz curls of their favorite sugary beverages, and their idea of cardio is running to the refrigerator or a thumb workout with a remote control or game controller. Most things are usually okay in moderation, but when the moderation exceeds what the body can take, then health issues occur.
Leading a healthy life style is a matter of choice, and the choice does not mean giving up EVERYTHING you enjoy. There is nothing wrong with having an occasional favorite beverage or food, but moderation is the key. Many times we don’t give our brain to sync with our bodies to tell us we have had enough. The pain to a healthy lifestyle is bearable but simple; get out of the comfort zone. You don’t have to drastically change your lifestyle, all at once, because if you do, it may not last. Cut down your sodas and replace with water or some other healthy alternative. Try to walk a little every day, and slowly increase the distance. Try to arrange your day to get adequate rest. Look for healthy choices that are palatable to you. It may be painful, but just like a pin prick hurts, making the changes in a realistic manner lessens the hurt, makes your comfort zone easier to leave, because you are developing a new paradigm, a new comfort zone, where you actually feel uncomfortable if you don’t get your exercise in, limit your indulges and began to see the actual GAIN from the minimal PAIN! Connect with me and start living your life of purpose on purpose. |
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