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How do you like to think? Negative or positive? How do you analyze your life so far? Good, fair or poor on the overall? Read on to find out how you can have better results in life. Let me start with the following statement: "Good thoughts bear good fruits. Bad thoughts bear bad fruits. And man is his own gardener." Do you agree with above statement? Does it ring a bell? How can you have better results in life for instance, your relationships, career, spirituality and work/life balance? Can you do better by thinking better? This is what the statement in quotes really means. So how can you think better? You need to feel good about yourself. And the easiest way to do that is to smile. Start smiling and saying Hello to everyone you meet throughout the day. You will get smiles and Hellos back. That would certainly make you feel better. And that makes you think better.  How can thinking better lead to better results? You will behave and talk better. Your body language will exude confidence. All these strengthen communications in career and relationships. You have better things to say to Almighty God and thank Him. Your spiritual connection, as a result, gets enhanced. Life gets better and you find a good balance between work and life. How can you train yourself to think better? Because like anybody else, your inner critic will let you into negative thoughts, majority of the time. The trick is to defeat this inner critic, go past it and focus on positivity. What is good about the current moment? Go still for a few seconds. The answer will come to you soon. It can be a good conversation with a colleague over having coffee; getting joy from playing with your child, an appetizing hearty dinner, a wonderful chat with a complete stranger and the list goes on. Get on the right track. Schedule a discovery call with me today and we can uncover plenty of "better thoughts"! To your extraordinary Success!!!
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When it comes time for you to leave this earth, what legacy will you leave behind? What will people say about you? Will they say, he or she was dynamic person, that lived life to the fullest, and everyone wished they had the intestinal fortitude to live like them, or he or she played life safe, was steady dependable, always played by the rules and lived a steady (boring) life. If you want to play it safe, just be considered dependable and downright boring, I can’t help you.  All you have to do is continue to live as you are, and this will be your epitaph. Now if you want to extract every moment from life, live it to the maximum extent, and be known as that guy or that girl everyone wanted to be with or be like; I can help that legacy become a reality. The beautiful thing is, you won’t have to wait until you leave this earth, they will start saying that right now, well right after you call me and we can IMMEDIATELY start developing and enacting a plan specifically for you, where you will become the material legends are made from. Why wait? Do it now, do it today! Your legacy begins with one phone call to me, and believe me, this is one time minimum effort will bring maximum results!
Let’s map out a legacy you can be proud of. Schedule your Free Discovery Call with me today. Let me bite your neck! A phrase heard in the older vampire movies. You seldom hear it now as politeness has gone the way of people just taking what they want when they want. Many people have their dreams sucked out of them by the vampires they meet in their life. The vampire only wants you to survive long enough until they can suck you dry; never letting you fully be alive. How many vampires have stopped you from doing what you need to do to live a life of purpose on purpose?  How many times have they just “bitten” your neck, or dreams by telling you all the reasons you can’t, shouldn’t, won’t be able to, it’s not the right time, etc., when it comes to you finally live your life to the fullest. Let me shed some light on the subject. Vampires don’t like the sunlight, and I SPECIALIZE in shedding light on vampiric situations. Let me feed your passions, your desires by helping you break free from the vampire cult and start living life fully in the light of your desired reality. I am not Buffy the Vampire Slayer, but I am a reality maker, and when it comes to the ties you may have to fear, doubt and discouragement; a tie breaker! Let me help you into the light today!
You no longer have to be afraid of the Vampires in your life. Connect with me. When was the last time you did something just for YOU? When was the last time you took action to help you live the life you desired, with no regrets? When was the last time you just went for it, whatever you desired without a thought to the negative consequences you may face. Many of us we want to do things, but because of the possible consequences we hesitate. When it comes to the subject of chasing our passions, we hesitate, procrastinate, and will often say it has to wait because of our responsibilities.  Are you in a fixed position in your career? Do you have the passion of an entrepreneur? Are you thinking about the time when you can make a change, but not sure how to make your passions a reality?
We have tried different “schemes” someone else used, but it just didn’t’ work for us. When we try to use solutions tailored to the situation of someone else as the answer to ours, just like medicine, the symptoms may be similar, but everyone’s situation is unique to them, the cure seldom works. Reach out to me and let me help you do something for yourself with no guilt, no regrets, and no concerns about being able to still fulfill your responsibilities. Let me develop a plan just for YOU, based on YOU and YOUR desires to live life to the fullest! No worries, no regrets, just SUCCESS! Schedule your free Discovery Call today!!
As long as you have breathe in your body, and the ability to “do”, chase your passion, chase your dream. The complexity of your life may make it a little more difficult. The responsibilities you have may make the pursuit of your passion a little more challenging, but it has been often said, anything worth having is worth working for. Want to be a painter? Take art classes and do it! Want to be a skydiver? Go to the training and do it! Want to just live life to the fullest and enjoy all it has to offer? What are you waiting for? Just do it! When we identify our passions and what we really want to do, we often feel it is impossible to do. There was a movie about a man who claimed to spend 90 minutes in heaven. He was in a major car accident and most had counted him dead. He lived, but they thought he would never walk again. His passion, his drive, his motivation, his desire to walk again had him walking out of the hospital in the time frame he spoke into existence. He had faith, and in his case, his faith sustained and kept him. Call it the universe returning, faith, fate, kismet, or whatever, speak your passions into existence by not just saying you want to do it, but you are doing it! Chase your dream! Chase your passion. We have but one life to live and why not live it with a purpose, on purpose as a life of purpose? I can help your dreams become a reality. You’ve tried the rest, why not try the best; Coach Lori Wagner. Let me help you start, and embrace your journey of your passion! Schedule your free discovery call today and start living your life of purpose on purpose.
A life of comfort is the world dream. We never have to worry about anything; whatever we desire is immediately provided with little effort. We desire a life where all our needs are provided and most of our wants. This seems like the perfect life; but a life of pure comfort breeds apathy and lethargy. There is nothing wrong with being “comfortable”, but we must ensure our comfort does not skew our idea of what is acceptable. We may have a million dollars in the bank, but if we continually withdraw and never deposit, sooner or later the money will be gone and the life we lead will change. We lose weight and reach our goal, but if we don’t work to keep the weight off, because we can get into our skinny jeans, sooner or later, those skinny jeans will be hanging in the closet and we will once again utter those dreaded words “one day, I will get back into them”. When we get comfortable, we have a tendency to change our perspective from I have to work to get what I want, to now I have it, so why bother. In relationships, we work hard to show our love at the beginning and before long we get into a comfortable routine, and the fire that once drove us fizzles out. When we finished school, we were tenacious in our pursuit of our dream job, and once we get it, we are content to just put everything on cruise control where it is comfortable. In the analogy of sport, the comfort zone will never get you to the level you could possibly reach. The comfort zone can even cause you to lose skills you worked hard to sharpen, because you see no need to use them anymore.  The comfort zone can make us lazy, and when something comes along we don’t particularly like; we accept it as long as it does not disturb our comfort zone. Comfort zones are fine to regroup and rest, but should never be a permanent habitation. When we retreat and live perpetually in our comfort zone; we won’t try no things, experience new sensations and could easily let the excitement of living life pass us by. When we leave our comfort zone, we can enter into a place called the Gift Zone. The Gift Zone is when we try new things, we discover new gifts and talents we never thought we had. There is a saying that “Necessity is the MOTHER of INVENTION” When we leave our comfort zones, we may find the need to try things we never have, and discover not only are we good at it, but we will wonder why did we wait so long to try something new. Life is for the living, and the comfort zone could easily cause us to quit living and just start existing. Live life to the fullest! Are you ready to start living your life of purpose on purpose? Schedule a Free Discovery call with me today.
Growing up, cartoons were a wonderful pastime in which to spend Saturday mornings before the parents released you to go outside or go wherever your special place was for the weekend. As you watched the exploits of Bugs Bunny, Porky Pig, or perhaps Superman or Wonder Woman was your flavor, you wondered how could they be superheroes, yet still be satisfied with their ordinary aspects of their lives when they weren’t saving the world. Many of us grow up trying to be like those superheroes; Superman, where nothing really fazes us. Wonder Woman who cannot be defeated by man or beast. We shy away from our Clark Kent and Diana Prince personalities to prove to the world we are the best there is, was and will ever be. Superman and Wonder Woman are fictional characters, so the question is; are you for real. If you are trying to be like them, are you being true to yourself? Are you just faking it to make it, or have you truly embraced who you are? Can people see the real you, or do they only see the image you portray?  Many times people forget, Superman was who Clark Kent “used” to not detract from the life he chose. Wonder Woman left the island she was from to be who she really wanted to be, versus the pigeon-holed leader her home island decided she should be. Don’t hide from who you are; embrace it. If you don’t like who you are, then chase your dream and become the person you want to be. What’s stopping you besides FEAR and you? Never forget, Superman was a persona of Clark Kent, not Clark Kent a persona of Superman. Wonder Woman was a persona of Diana Prince, not the other way around.
The beautiful thing is, we don’t have a need of a superhero alter ego for the people we see every day; for many, if we would just be the best version of ourselves we can be; the best parent, sibling, leader, worker, or whatever it may be, we will find we are already a Superhero in someone’s eyes for just being real! Are you ready to start living your life of purpose on purpose? Schedule a Free Discovery call with me today. On a movie set, the word that sets everything in motion is when the director says “Action”. All the lines rehearsed, all the stunts practiced, all the lines memorized to make the movie a success begin with one simple word “Action” We develop a life script, determine how to reach our goals, and fantasize about our future success, but for now, we act as if we are waiting for someone to say the word “Action”. The minute you realize your heart’s desire, the word “Action” was uttered. The second you realized what you have is not what you want, “Action” was said. The moment you desired to take a chance on your self, “Action” was the word uttered by the director of your life movie.  You see, you are the director, and if you think you are waiting on someone, or something, your waiting is in vain, because only you can utter the word “Action” for your life movie to begin. There may be external influences, current situations, or even circumstances. Sometimes movies have problems with filming, but the movie still goes on, and so can you! Take ACTION and let your movie roll, so when the time comes to view the end credits, you can say, this was a bestseller, a block buster, an epic adventure, a life movie that is definitely a MUST SEE! Are you ready to live your life of purpose on purpose? Schedule your strategy session with me today and start living the life your deserve.
 There is an old saying, which tells us we are what we eat. A contemporary version speaks to the idea of garbage in, garbage out.
Conversely, if you consume things that are healthy, then your health is improved. This begs the question, what are you feeding your mind and soul. Are you ingesting a constant diet of negativity, pessimism and doubt, or a healthy diet of positivity, optimism and hope. Many times a first look at a situation is not the correct view of that situation. Many times a hopeless situation actually has elements of hope if you search for them. A storm cloud may bring destruction, but the rain can bring healing to an area ravaged by drought. Who do you allow to speak into your life? Do you allow those that are trying to help you be the best version of you, or those that down you so they can feel as if they are the best version of themselves? If you live a life where you allow people, places and things to bring toxicity to your mind and soul, you will live a life full of toxins. When you seek people, places and things to pour healing, hope, and yes, even sometimes tough love into your life, you will find you have the impetus to reach new hopes, achieve new goals and be all you can be, as you aim high, enjoying this great adventure called life. As we watch our diet for our bodies, we must also watch our diet for our mind and soul. Who feeds you and who do you need to cut from the list of places you can spiritually eat. As we make smart healthy choices for our bodies, we must do the same for our mind and soul. Are you ready to live your life of purpose on purpose? Schedule your strategy session with me today and start living the life your deserve. We have but one life to live, so why not enjoy it to the fullest? We spend a copious amount of time lamenting the hand of fate we have been dealt. When you can’t win at one casino, you go to the another, so if your life is not what you want or expect, why not try a different approach? We are the masters of our destiny. There are many schools of thought; beliefs we are victims of fate or regimented to follow a path some cosmic force has already decided for us. A mindset of that type will guarantee you will always get the leftovers life has to offer, when you can have the first serving.  Love this life. Embrace this life. Live this life to the fullest. If you want it, go get it. You will find life is for the living, and if your life is not what you want, it could be because you believe you don’t deserve it. You do deserve the best and when you change your mindset, you change your circumstances. A person rich in love, peace and at one within themselves has a richness no money can be. Dream your dream and make it a reality! Are you ready to live your life of purpose on purpose? Schedule your strategy session with me today and start living the life your deserve ....and loving every moment of it. |
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